She had not thought it would be so easy to slip into the old roles. Cambridge had changed her fundamentally and she thought she was immune. No one in her family, however, noticed the transformation in her, and she was not able to resist the power of their habitual expectations. Ian Mcewan
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When we are kids, it is easy to conform to all our peers' expectations. We are often busy spreading the news of the latest trends and following the same activities that other kids love. However, as we age and become more independent, we begin to notice that as we grow older, the roles that we play as children do not naturally fit us. We find ourselves struggling to find new ways to be ourselves.

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